Are You Still Looking For
The Right Guy For You?
Learn a practical and empowering system for attracting the Right Guy and stop wasting your precious time.
Have you ever noticed how some really great women have a series of bad relationships, or no relationships at all? It's crazy, because usually these women have every other part of their life together except their relationship.
They might be hard-working, and successful. They might be able to plan, coordinate, and pull off complex projects or events. They might have a graduate degree or be working on their master's degree at night. They have their act together.
And whether they are super-fit and healthy, or about average and not really worried about it, they're usually fun and friendly, and have lots of great friends.
But they just haven't found the Right Guy for the long-term, family-raising, more-than-just-work kind of life they expected, and want.
If you're one of these great women, and assuming you'd like to get the Right Guy for you, and have a great relationship, and maybe have a child or raise a family, is there anything else you need to do before you take five minutes and read the rest of this letter?
I'm Kathryn Joseph, and together with my partner Michael, we've written a new book with a modern take on dating. It's called, "How to Get the Right Guy Right Now," and it's something like a practical strategic field guide, filled with stuff you can use immediately to get the Right Guy for you.
Of course, we hope you'll buy it, and tell all your friends. And more importantly we hope it helps you get your Right Guy, because if youre anything like us you're whole life will be a whole lot better when you do.
What stage are you in?
There are four stages to getting the Right Guy: Find, Attract, Connect, and Commit.
Over the next several weeks we're going to offer you free tips from the new book on each topic, absolutely free.
Here's one on finding where the Right Guys for you hang out.
The Magic of Lateral Shifts
When you're single, men and women often like to do different activities. Just like married couples tend to do different activities than singles.
If you only do stuff you like and there aren't any guys around, or if you don't like to do things guys usually do, then you'll never even have a chance to meet the Right Guy.
But even worse, if you go out and do something where there are a lot of guys, and then meet a guy while you're doing something you don't like to do, and then the two of you hit it off - well, you may have a lot of friction down the road.
BUT, if you're doing something you like, and having a good time doing it, the men who are there with you will be attracted to you like bees to honey.
So here's the trick: Make a LATERAL SHIFT.
A Lateral Shift is when you take something you already like doing and find something similar, or related, that cool guys also tend to like.
Men and women aren't all that different. We might tend to do things differently, but we still have the same needs, and fitness, food, and fun are the big three.
For example, in fitness, maybe you like Yoga. If there aren't any guys in your class, try taking a different form of yoga that appeals more strongly to men. It may be more strenuous, but the forms are not unrelated, and you'll figure it out fast enough.
An example in food would be the specialty food expos and farmer's markets. If you're not meeting the Right Guys there, try a chili festival, or a BBQ sponsored by a local brewery. If you're vegan or vegetarian look for a class on grilling vegetables.
An example in fun would be crafts or scrap-booking. If you enjoy these you might enjoy photography, so find a class that will introduce you to the more sophisticated aspects of photos. You can find everything from one-day nature/urban explorations to a month-long one-night-a-week classes. Believe us, you will meet some cool guys, frequently with enough cash for an expensive hobby, at the camera store or photography class.
Our new book is filled with 16 different examples of Lateral Shifts and a step-by-step exercise to help you find ones that will work for you. And that's just in one chapter!
But you have enough here to figure out the basics, so get out there and make a Lateral Shift this week and start to experience the results you can expect.
The Right Guy Test
Once you start meeting guys that might be the Right Guy for you, you want to know for sure that he's the one. You may not have much time. If you're a career-focused woman you may be busy with your job or already be in your '30s. Wasting time with the wrong guys is frustrating.
If it takes you three months, or two years, to realize he's not the Right Guy for the long-run, well, that's time you're never getting back on the clock.
We've developed TEN tests to help you know for sure if he's the Right Guy for you. We call it the Right Guy Test. The ten tests cover 12 different character qualities you probably want in your guy, and each one is easy, fast, and he won't even know you're testing him.
Nobody is perfect, and some qualities may matter more to you than others. But you probably want to know if he meets ANY of your criteria, and if he has what it takes to be a good husband, a great life partner, or an awesome dad.
The Right Guy Test is free. Sign up below and we'll email it to you immediately. We'll also send you the other tips from the book as we release them.
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Warmly,
Kathryn & Michael Joseph